Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Judge Michael Haas to Divorcing Parents

"Your children have come into this world because of the two of you. Maybe you two made lousy choices as to whom you decided to be the other parent. If so, that is your problem and your fault.

"No matter what you think of the other party - or what your parents think of the other party - these children are one-half of each of you. Remember that, because every time you tell your child what an idiot his father is, or what a fool his mother is, or how bad the absent parent is, or what terrible things that person has done, you are telling the child half of him is bad.

"That is an unforgivable thing to do to a child.That is not love. That is possession. If you do that to your children, you will destroy them as surely as if you had cut them into pieces, because that is what you are doing to their emotions.

"I sincerely hope you do not do that to your children. Think more about your children and less about yourselves, and make yours a selfless kind of love, not foolish or selfish, or your children will suffer."

Judge Michael Haas
Minnesota, 2001

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